Basic Steps to Take After You Decide To File For Divorce

No one gets married thinking that the union will not last, but as statistics show, the divorce rate is 50%. If you find yourself in the half of the population that is in a marriage that is not working out, there are steps to take once decide to file for divorce.

Retain an Attorney

While chances are that your husband or wife has an idea that the marriage has irretrievably broken down, it is generally better to retain the service of an attorney before you advise them that you are filing for divorce. The goal is to maintain a semblance of calm during the proceedings and proper advisement is key. At Keough + Sweeney we are experienced divorce lawyers in Rhode Island and Massachusetts and can guide you through what can be a confusing time.

Decide If You Can Live Together Temporarily

Whether it be a financial consideration because you need to save money for the move or you want to gradually transition your children to the idea that you and your spouse will soon be living apart, continuing to live together can be possible. We do believe that it is important to establish ground rules. This is where a lawyer drafted agreement can come in handy.

If you decide that you are not willing or able to live together, the next decision to be made is who is to remain in the house and how household property will be divided.

Gather Information About Finances

Items in this category include:

-Utility Bills

-Mortgage or Rent Payments

-Tax Returns and Pay Stubs

-Insurance Policies

-Credit Card Bills

-401K or other Retirement Accounts

-Real Estate Deeds

Creating a budget will also be important for both parties. Budgets can show standard of living and financial need for alimony and to assess child support needs. Budgets can also uncover unreported income.

Keough +Sweeney is available to help you when you are ready to file your divorce. With our years of experience we can answer your questions and provide representation.